How To Read A Person Like A Book

March 21, 2009

I’m reading this book by Nierenberg and Calero, and it’s very interesting.  Do you ever think about non-verbal communication?  or wonder what someone is really thinking when they talk to you with their arms folded or hands on hips?  I don’t think there’s any reason to dig too deep into it, but it’s interesting to study. 

I do like watching people at airports or sporting events–anywhere where there are many strangers together.  You should try it.  See who seems confident, nervous, shy, frustrated, etc.  Watch their hands, fingers, voice fluctuations, posture, and other non-verbals. 

Think about your visitors.  When they are getting ready to leave, they may position their bodies as if to get up and go.  A smart host will notice this and  say “it’s getting late…”  I don’t claim to be good at any of this, but I like to read about it and practice it; so I’ll try harder. 

This could be important in dating.  I’m not going to talk about that because I’m no expert, but it might be helpful to know if the lady you’re with is bored or not.  I’m sure there were many times I didn’t pick up on my date’s signs, but oh well.  I’m glad I only get to date my wife now. 

Written by Forester · Filed Under Commentary 

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3 Responses to “How To Read A Person Like A Book”

  1. Elizabeth on March 22nd, 2009 7:30 am

    Have you seen the new show Lie To Me? It’s all about the non-verbal communication, very interesting show…

  2. JesseAnn on March 24th, 2009 10:11 pm

    Thad, I thing about that stuff quite a bit actually when I observe other people, but how are ya’ll? W miss you guys!

  3. Forester on March 25th, 2009 10:23 am

    We’re good JesseAnn. We are looking forward to yall coming to a game this fall. You are talked about often here.

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